Why I Stepped Away From Floristry

As our move back to Brunswick approached, I found myself reflecting on the shape of my life. What did I want more of? What was I ready to let go of? How did I want to spend my time, energy, and creativity?

I wanted to be around young people again. Their energy, humour, and endless curiosity are so refreshing. Returning to education after so many years was a leap. I had a feeling I might enjoy it, but I wasn’t prepared for how much I would love it! Just weeks into Term 1, I knew I had made the right move. Dear Henri has always been about celebrating and uplifting others, so being in a position where I am able to wholeheartedly help students find their voices, build confidence, and embrace creativity is such a privilege.

I wanted more balance. More time spent with my husband, my friends, my family. For years, weekends belonged to weddings - long days, late nights, endless projects on the go. And for a time, that life was what I wanted. I thrived on the creative challenges, the camaraderie of working with talented florists, and the joy of bringing something beautiful to life. But seasons change, and so do priorities.

I wanted more stability. Covid reshaped the wedding industry in ways that are still being felt. Weddings were postponed, rescheduled, or cancelled. Add to that the impact of climate change - unpredictable weather affecting flower availability, extreme weather conditions disrupting bump ins, and an increasing level of uncertainty for vendors. The instability lingered long after lockdowns ended, and I realised I wanted more security and a solid foundation for the future.

Floristry and weddings taught me resilience, adaptability, and the art of staying calm under pressure. (Yes, I did spit the dummy a few times!) I’ve navigated extreme weather disruptions, last-minute logistical changes, and the intensity of pulling off large-scale events. I’ve built lifelong friendships, collaborated with incredible creatives, and been part of some magical moments. I will always feel grateful for what this experience gave me.

So, I made some changes. Changes that allow me to keep doing what I love, while also making space for everything else that matters. Because isn’t that what life is all about? Adapting, evolving, and making choices that align with who we are now?

For me, that means less time on the road, more time working with young people, continued time marrying my wonderful couples, and more weekends spent with my community. A slower, more intentional rhythm. And for this chapter of my life, that feels just right.